COSRT-REGISTERED · NCPS-ACCREDITED · SERVING KENT
Psychosexual Therapy in Kent
Confidential, specialist support for sexual difficulties and intimacy concerns. A talking therapy, delivered by a COSRT-registered psychosexual therapist serving Kent.
- 12+ years' experience
- COSRT-registered psychosexual therapist
- In-person in Kings Hill, or online across Kent
- Talking therapy only
What Is Psychosexual Therapy? Guide for Kent Clients
A Confidential, Talking-Based Approach for Sexual Difficulties in Kent
Psychosexual therapy, also known as sex therapy, sex counselling, or psychosexual counselling, is a specialist, evidence-based form of talking therapy for sexual difficulties and intimacy concerns. The field was pioneered in the 1960s and 70s by researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson, whose work introduced techniques such as sensate focus and shaped much of how sex therapy is practised today.
An important point of clarity: psychosexual therapy is a talking therapy. In line with the COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) code of ethics, there is no physical examination and no physical touch between therapist and client at any point. If a physical cause is suspected, you’ll be supported to speak with your GP alongside the therapeutic work, not instead of it.
For clients across Kent, including Maidstone, Kings Hill, West Malling, and Tunbridge Wells, psychosexual therapy offers a private, professional space to talk about difficulties that can feel too embarrassing or isolating to raise anywhere else. It’s also distinct from “sex addiction” treatment models, which typically follow a 12-step, abstinence-based approach where compulsive sexual behaviour is the concern, this practice takes a non-shaming, exploratory approach instead.
OUR APPROACH
Our Approach to Psychosexual Therapy in Kent
Sexual difficulties are common, but talking about them rarely feels easy. Our approach is built to make that first step as comfortable as possible:
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COSRT-Registered Training
A Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy — the recognised specialist training for this field.
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NHS Clinical Experience
Direct clinical experience within an NHS sexual health clinic, alongside private practice.
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Integrative & Relational
Addressing the emotional, relational, and psychological dimensions of sexual difficulties — not just the physical symptom in isolation.
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Talking Therapy Only
No physical examinations, no physical touch, ever — a fully confidential, talking-based process.
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Inclusive of All Identities
Working with any sexual orientation, gender identity, or relationship structure, including CNM and polyamory-inclusive practice, with Arabic-language sessions available.
A confidential first step, wherever you are in Kent: whether it’s a single session to talk something through or ongoing structured work, the pace and format are led by what you need, not a fixed programme.
MEET YOUR KENT BASED THERAPIST
Nariman Al-Aloosi
Nariman is a COSRT registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist based in Kings Hill, West Malling, serving individuals and couples across Kent for over 12 years. Nariman holds a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, accredited by Middlesex University, and is an NCPS-accredited practitioner. Her training also includes the Institute for Relational Intimacy (USA) and the NAOS Institute, London, and she brings direct clinical experience from an NHS sexual health clinic.
Nariman works with couples of all backgrounds across Kent, including cross-cultural and interfaith relationships. She holds full professional insurance, and everything discussed in session is treated with genuine confidentiality and respect.
ISSUES KENT CLIENTS BRING TO THERAPY
What Psychosexual Therapy Can Help With in Kent
Low Desire & Libido
Mismatched or reduced sexual desire, your own, or within a relationship, is one of the most common reasons people seek psychosexual therapy.
Erectile Dysfunction
Difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, whether occasional or persistent, and the anxiety that often builds around it.
Premature Ejaculation
Ejaculation occurring sooner than a person or couple would like, often accompanied by performance anxiety.
Delayed Ejaculation
Difficulty reaching ejaculation despite adequate stimulation — less commonly discussed, but a genuine and treatable concern.
Vaginismus
Involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles that makes penetration painful or impossible.
Painful Sex & Dyspareunia
Persistent or recurrent pain during sex, which can have physical, emotional, or combined causes.
Difficulty Reaching Orgasm
Whether lifelong or recently developed, difficulty with arousal or orgasm is a common and treatable focus of psychosexual work.
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
Patterns of sexual behaviour that feel out of control or distressing, addressed here in a non-shaming way — distinct from a 12-step "sex addiction" model.
Impact of Illness or Life Changes
Sexual difficulties often follow illness, surgery, childbirth, or menopause — addressing both the physical and emotional adjustment.
Sexuality, Gender & Relationship Diversity
Confidential, affirming support around sexuality, gender identity, and relationship structures, including consensual non-monogamy and polyamory.
WHERE I PRACTISE IN KENT
In-Person in Kings Hill, or Online Across Kent
In-person sessions are available at the Kings Hill, West Malling practice. Online sessions are available for clients across Kent.
MORE SUPPORT IN KENT
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Common Questions About Psychosexual Therapy in Kent
Yes — psychosexual therapy, sex therapy, and sex counselling are used interchangeably here to describe the same specialist, talking-based service.
No. In line with COSRT’s code of ethics, psychosexual therapy is entirely talk-based — there is no physical examination and no physical touch between therapist and client at any point.
No. Sessions work for individuals or couples, depending on what you’re working through.
No. Where compulsive sexual behaviour is the concern, this practice takes a non-shaming, exploratory approach rather than a 12-step, abstinence-based model.
The practice is based in Kings Hill, West Malling, with in-person sessions available there, and online sessions for clients anywhere in Kent — including Maidstone and Tunbridge Wells.
Normally It’s 70 Pounds. Fees are discussed directly during the intro call, based on session format and frequency — get in touch for current rates.
Start Couple Therapy in Kent Today
Book a complimentary 10-minute intro call — no pressure, just a chance to talk through what’s bringing you to therapy and see if it’s the right fit.